| Gummi cockrings from Stockroom rock! |
[Nov. 6th, 2009|07:34 am] |
As part of my birthday present recently, wifey got me three gummi cockrings from Stockroom. This morning I woke up hard and ready to have a nice boink.
So, put on one gummi around the base of The Boys, and put a 2nd one around the base of Mr. Happy, and woke her up and we went for it.
They felt great. I recommend playtime with them! |
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| JO - insomnia maybe |
[Oct. 6th, 2009|10:51 pm] |
After last night and only getting about 4hrs of sleep, tonight I tried to make sure I could go to sleep early.
I was in bed by 9:30p, had classical music channel on the TV, had taken an over-the-counter allergy pill that makes me drowsy. Even had some hot chocolate milk. All to try to relax and sleep. Read a detective mystery book.
Wife was able to fall asleep by 10pm.
Finished the book. It is about 10:45p, and still awake. Gonna try to do a quick JO and see if that helps relax me so I can sleep. I shouldn't need to do this, with only 4hrs sleep from the previous night. Sucks.
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Well, the idea of a quick JO turned into a long marathon, where I finally spurted at 3:30am! This makes _two_days_in_a_row_ where I only get 4hrs of sleep. Grr! |
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| JO - midnight to 3am |
[Oct. 6th, 2009|03:03 am] |
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Well, to help me process, I am going to start documenting when I JO, and for how long, and what triggered the compulsion or desire, as I can.
I want to come to grips (no pun intended) with this, and see if I can, by documenting, be able to go back and reflect and perhaps reduce.
Tonight, I did do work until midnight, then felt restless. My desire to JO was to relieve tension, and be able to fall asleep.
Took 3hrs of imagefap, flickr, and porn sites. |
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| JO time - addiction? - taking longer as I get older |
[Oct. 3rd, 2009|08:58 am] |
There is one self-trait that I am not feeling good about.
1. I think I am addicted to orgasm. Yes, that's one all people can say they enjoy doing, but I have a _need_ to get off almost daily.
2. The amount of time I spend trying to achieve one is increasing as I age. It takes between 1 and 2hrs for me to be able to get off.
3. Any time I get private time at home, one of my first thoughts is that I now have an opportunity to JO.
For example. I woke up around 6am this morning, household is asleep, so went to the computer room and did my usual combination of LJ, flickr, and imagefap. Finally was able to spew by 8:30a
Looked at pix. Stroked off. And it took two hours before I was able to shoot off!
Geez.
So, I worry that, as a classic addiction symptom, that even though it feels good, that it is starting to take away from family time and other things I could be doing. |
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| wifeboinc - new toys from Stockroom |
[Oct. 3rd, 2009|07:36 am] |
Wife and I had a nice wifeboinc last night with the new toys she had ordered from Stockroom.
Played with anal bead wand, gummi cockring.
Had a good time.
She also got herself a pink 'normal guy sized' vibrator, but we haven't played with it yet. |
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| Craving humiliation play lately - ideas |
[Sep. 24th, 2009|06:12 am] |
I have been craving humiliation play lately.
Ideas:
Having her tease me about my small size, lack of stamina, bi-curious tendencies. At first just pillow talk. How I could easily be her cuckold, or a f*cktoy to help her bull get off with, if she was not available. But eventually she even hinting to her friends, say at dinner, that 'He could use improvement in that department' when sex might be mentioned as a topic of discussion. With time, her even being more direct that I am inadequate in that department, could easily be a cuckold, etc.
Having her insist I get a vasectomy, not just to prevent conception, but to guarantee my inferior status as infertile male. Having her put her ownership tattoo right above Mr. Happy. Having my personal hair around Mr. Happy permanently removed, so I am always 'bald' down there.
Being locked up in chastity, so I cannot stroke and get Mr. Happy off. Being given a chastity piercing, such that it is very difficult (but hopefully not 100% impossible) to be able to stroke off. |
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| Great wifeboinc - erotic biting |
[Aug. 18th, 2009|09:41 am] |
Wifey came and sat on my lap while I was 'net surfing last night, wrapped her hands around my neck, and started to make out with me... passionately.
Well!
Returned her passion with enthusiasm, as we had not had any erotic time together for a few weeks. We then disengaged from the chair, and went to the bedroom.
Once in the bedroom, behind closed doors, she stripped down, showing she had shaved Mrs.Happy baby butt smooth, and then rewrapped her arms around my neck, grabbing my hair, and continued with passionate making out.
She let me know she wanted to be teased, over and over and over, to build up the tension to fever pitch. So I did.
Made sure to do firm erotic bites, starting at her neck, and working my way down to her breasts, all the while letting Mr.Happy tease, via just the tip, of Mrs. Happy. Held out as long as we both could, before I started to thrust with authority, to a great ending.
Was a top ten event for both of us. |
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| Imagefap, Flickr, and LJ |
[Aug. 17th, 2009|06:23 am] |
Household is asleep, so I can enjoy some one-handed typing viewing porn at Imagefap, Flickr, and LJ.
Imagefap has a great Interracial section, as many galleries have maledom, femsub, and cuckold themed captions.
Flickr is great for making friends that are into cuckoldry, and sharing pix.
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| "Would you like my ass?" -- what husband needs to ponder |
[Jul. 26th, 2009|08:59 am] |
Last night, wife was saying that Mrs.Happy was not feeling well, so I wrote off any intercourse for the evening, and focused on watching TV or reading a book.
So, in bed, after TV watching, was around midnight, and she rolls over to face me, and initiates making out.
Yum.
While making out, she reaches down and gives Mr.Happy a handshake, and can tell she got him interested. Smiles. Asks the question "Would you like my ass?"
Wow.
Had a great time, as she went into a doggie position, and handed me the lube. I lubed up, and started teasing and inserting, slowly, with lots of teasing. Now, I consider myself only average to slightly small, at 6" and less thick than a toilet paper tube, but sometimes I am too big for her. Therefore I was just putting the head in, then pulling out to rub Mr.Happy up and down her crack, over the hole, so it would get stimulation and I would get some nice friction.
Seemed to work for her, as she fingered herself, moaned, and I felt her do a full body shudder! Excellent.
At that point it was about 12:45, and was feeling quite sleepy, even during sex, so postponed further fun for the night. |
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| Maledom - branding fantasy |
[Jul. 14th, 2009|05:32 am] |
My wife and I were going at it in a really great and intense way this early morning.
I had used the under-bed restraint system that she had bought for us from stockroom, as well as the heavy duty nipple clamps on her. I was teasing, by barely thrusting with just my tip into her shaved smooth hotness, the clamps doing great sensations.
I could tell she was completely into my being masculine and dominant, as she was extremely wet, moaning, and in a great mental place.
As I continued to tease, her statement to me:
"Take me, f*ck me, make me yours. Brand me!"
Holy moly, brand her?!
...Completely arousing thought! WOW, made my mental place and Mr. Happy completely TILT.
I _so_ love this direction our erotic relationship has taken. |
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| wifeboinc - stockroom toys |
[Jul. 11th, 2009|04:37 pm] |
Wife surprised me recently with making some purchases from http://stockroom.com
She got some nice sturdy black nipple clamps, and an under-the-bed bondage kit, that has 4 cuffs.
It has been great fun playing. She also recently shared an erotic story, "Masters of the Shadowlands: Dark Citadel" that resonates with her. It is great fun to learn more about what makes my wife tick erotically, and exploring and expanding on that avenue.
I am learning that she really is not into being given wickedness, but that she wants me to be dominating erotically. It is not about punishment or humiliation for her, but having me be strong, masculine, and guide so she can let go. |
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| wifeboinc - inspired by sexcetera |
[May. 23rd, 2009|08:23 am] |
Wifey and I watched some playboy TV that we had Tivo'd.
Watched an episode of 69 sexy things to do before you die yesterday. Good ol Brani and Ernesto were in New Orleans having sexy haunted segment. They did lots of varied positions and seemed to be having a fun time.
Then watched an episode of sexcetera last night. Two of the male hosts were on a tour of Portland strip clubs. I pointed out I preferred the smaller, edgier clubs, where the girls were a bit more goth, and tattooed, and there was a bdsm feel to the atmosphere.
That led to her offering herself, to be my plaything, she wanted that intensity from me.
So, did some slowly built up breast play, slowly warming them up, then nipping with teeth, and slowly pinching, firmer and firmer on the nipples, till she was squirming and very hot and steamy down below.
We then moved to missionary, my favorite, where I did some controlled slow thrusting while continuing to nip with my teeth on breasts.
After a few minutes, she switched us to going at it from behind, where I teased her other hole with my thumb, to great groans. It got me too close, too fast, so switched back to missionary. I then supported myself with arms locked, then used one hand to hold her clit and clit hood between thumb and forefingers, for more and more intensity, for a fantastic finish.
Using my fingers to pinch her clit and clit hood was a new idea, and it went over great. |
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| wifeboic - smooth kitty |
[May. 18th, 2009|11:05 pm] |
My wife surprised me yesterday.
She had mentioned earlier that day that she had gotten me a present, and that it was a surprise. Once we had gotten to bed, she asked me "would you like your present that I got you?"
Well, of course!
Then she did a nice slow reveal that she had... gotten her kitty nice and baby-bottom smooth!
It was great!
Had a fantastic wifeboinc. |
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| wifeboinc |
[May. 12th, 2009|10:20 pm] |
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Out of the blue, wife has been a bit frisky. Initiated a nice wifeboinc yesterday and the day before.
Quite unexpected, and enjoyable. |
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